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Subtitle - Troll Detection Made Easy
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Due to their overwhelming lack of social skills, the gay
mans 'trolls' arent that hard to detect if you know what
to look for.

The majority of them are usually oblivious to anyone or
anything but themselves, and thus behave in a way that
makes you shudder with embarrassment.

A classic example is someone who sends you naked pictures
of themselves without asking, or giving any indication
thats what theyre going to do, first.

Another example is someone who bugs you for your personal
contact details even after you have already declined.

There are literally millions of gay men and women online
daters out there - you can easily afford to be picky.

If you have a bad feeling about someone, trust it!

However, be aware that there are some other, more
malevolent trolls, who will try to bait you and lure you in
to talking with them or meeting them.

So how can you tell if theyre a troll?

When I first began using online dating I had no idea,
I was completely naive.

Resultingly, I fell victim to a troll on more than one
occasion  thankfully I have never been physically bashed
but:

"Ive been homo-bashed in a chat room by an obvious
gay-person hater. In fact, I think it was a 2 or 3 of them
having a good laugh.

"Ive gone on dates with trolls, more than once.
Shortly after we met it became very obvious they were
nothing like they described.

"I had to change my phone number because I foolishly
gave it out to a desperate troll who wouldnt take 'no' for
an answer.

Im not trying to showcase my stupidity! I am just giving
the reasons why I had to, out of necessity, develop some
kind of early detection system.

After a lot of trial-and-error, for both myself and my
clients, I developed a check-list of yellow-flags'. Here
are atwo of them:

1.Move-Out Ya Bum!

If you get any hints that they still live with their mom
and dad, thats a sign of a troll.

If they are young then its probably OK, but most gay
online daters are mid-20s and upwards.

From my experience, a grown gay man or woman still living
at home is cause for concern.

If a relationship did start, you would have to always use
your place. Additionally, you have to wonder if his or her
parents even know your date is gay.

If they dont, visiting would be like being 14 all over
again&.imagine  you visit, date introduces you as a friend
and then tells his/her mother you are going up to the
bedroom..

Mom asks if you want some milk and cookies... and the whole
time you're in constant fear she will burst through the
door at any time&

You get the picture.

Be sure to clarify, however, who is living with whom. It
may be the case that it is the daters house and their
parents actually live with them.

2.The Pungency of Desperation

Any whiff of desperation is a sign  if they cant 'get'
anyone, theres probably a good reason.

Desperation can come in the form of:

- wanting to hook-up for a date very soon after you have
met them online.

- claiming to love you even though you havent yet met in
person.

- making future plans for your lives together even though
you havent yet met in person.

- talking a lot about depression, intense loneliness,
suicide and other dark thoughts.

- telling you very private details about their life way too
soon.

- offering to give you their contact details even though
you've only spoken (typed) once or twice online.

- when you log into your online dating service there are 6
messages waiting for you even though you only met them
online for the first time yesterday.

- being too agreeable. Very easy to fall for this one. I them the ‘Statute of Contact Limitations’ and ‘No
Sepia-Toned Photos Please’.

Until then,

Your Truly,
Adam Coole

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